Question: There’s this girl, who I really like a lot. After expressing this to her she let me know that she really only likes me as a friend. I’m not completely positive if there is another guy she likes…at least for the last few months or so. But I’m not sure what to do. I like her and I want to know if I should keep trying? Does she have a reason? What do I do?
Answer: No. Here’s why…the ‘friend zone’ can be a challenge to get out of and there are better things to channel your energy on. Also, women are weird…they will later realize they liked you when you aren’t paying them any attention. So…do you bro! Do things that make you feel good rather than get her attention. If you’ve heard that saying: if you love it set it free…well this also works when you like someone. The timing could be against you and she may not be in a position to like you in the same way (whatever her reason is). I would also like to point out that women don’t respond well when men come on tooooo strong (this may or may not be the case for you). I could go on all day with the reasons because women are complex in that regard. Trust me…I am a women and I know how difficult we can be. Do some things that make you smile and make yourself a little less available to her. If she only wants to be friends…BE FRIENDS…don’t be an ass. But don’t sell yourself short waiting for her to love you. If it was meant to be, the universe will show her the light.
Best of Luck!